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We oftentimes get stressed out about their monthly budget, not handling your budget can can place you in to further in debt if you are not mindful. Handling your budget properly has many benefits including saving you money and help relief some of your tension over debt. Always keep in mind that a budget is primarily a plan for your monthly spending. A budget, like any programme, needs some degree of management to make it work for you. The manner I handle mybudget, for example, is by focussing on maintaining information organized and controlling my spending.

My main focus is on organising the information in mybudget. I monitor recurring expenses like utilities, car and mortgage payments, insurance, and the like, for example. I can easily lose track of my spending without organizing my budget. By being informed of what expenses repeat every month, I have an instant hold on the minimum amount of money I have to set away each month before I spend on other things I can moderate a little more such as entertainment, clothing, and holidays.

To make a financial progress, I make sure that I moderate my expenditure in my budget. A strong measure of advancement is placing money into a savings instrument or paying down debt. However, if I over spend, the opposite is true because instead of saving money I will use debt to help me cover the monthly expenditure in my budget. Distinctly, giving in to the tensions of budgeting can have costly consequences for my finances, particularly if I am not capable to pay down my debt.

There are two benefits for watching and organising my budget: First, I save money by fending off unneeded expenses. Second, my finances are headed at accomplishing financial goals. Essentially, by not buying things I do not need, I am actually freeing up money that I can either use for something else or save. The extra money can also be useful in paying off debt or saving it for a holiday. In addition to having extra money, I am able to make longer term financial goals like saving and investing for retirement or paying off my mortgage or student loans. With mybudget being coordinated and controlled, not only does my financial position become more secure but successfully managing my budget reduces the stress that often comes with being in debt.

Word of mouth is one of the most effective ways to grow your coaching business. It’s free, or at most costs very little, yet very few coaches use it to anywhere near it’s potential!

Consider this: if you got just one referral from each one of your clients, over the next 60 days you’d double your client base! What would that mean to your potential income and how many more people would you be helping in supportive and uplifting ways?

So, how do you maximize word of mouth? Here are 5 Steps you can take now…

1. Really appreciate your clients and let them know consistently you value them
This is the most important, yet overlooked element of creating endless referrals. Many businesses focus more on profits than on people. Focusing on profits alone can be detrimental to success and ‘Word of Mouth’ success comes from looking beyond just profit into how you can enrich your customer’s lives.

Action: At least once a month, take the time to communicate to each of your clients and show them you appreciate them. Send them something of value, something unexpected, a bonus report, a special piece of news you just found. Make it relevant to them and do it regularly.

2. Create an exceptional experience each time they deal with you or your company
If you can make doing business with you an exceptional experience, your clients will want to tell a lot of people. People want amazing experiences!

Here is an example: There is a Life Coach in Brisbane who has a special relationship with a city coffee shop. Once every 8 weeks he invites his clients to a ‘brains trust’ meeting and the coffee and cake is on the house. Every client that attends gets a card and a voucher from the coffee shop owner to say ‘Thank you for joining us today, we would love to see you again soon’. The voucher is a ‘buy one get one free’ coffee voucher. So they are encouraged to come back again. And because the coffee shop owner is exposing his business to potential new clients the coach pays just cost price on the coffee and cake his clients eat. Normally about 8 clients attend and the cost is around $30. Just a little extra touch can make dealing with your business that much more of an exceptional experience!

Action: What can you do now to add little things that make an exceptional experience? Perhaps you can use the above example or something similar. Remember, start creating exceptional experiences today.

3. Give your customers incentives for giving you referrals
If you’re being passive about referrals then you’re sitting on a gold-mine. Come up with ways of rewarding your clients for referring business to you. They could receive free gifts, such as a 30 minute back massage voucher for referring a friend or a free Style Cut from an award winning beauty salon. The businesses involved would welcome the opportunity to have new clients come their way and would be happy to give that first style cut or treatment for free if they understand the potential value of a new customer.

Action: Reward your clients for referring people to you. Come up with rewards that will be beneficial to your clients. If you worked with executive clients perhaps a free 30 minute health check at a trusted health centre would be valuable or a voucher to use at an upmarket clothing boutique.

4. Make it easy for clients to give you referrals
If you want to get lots of referrals, you must make it incredibly easy for your clients to tell their friends. Don’t expect them to go way out of the way to help you grow your business. Make it as simple as possible.

Action: Develop a ‘referral package’ that you give to your clients. Ask your clients to be an ambassador for your business as you wish to work with people similar to them. The package would include a letter explaining why referrals are important to you, and a series of referral cards that your client can give out to others. Present it professionally and it will hold more value, more worth.

5. Ask at the right time!
When is the best time to ask for referrals? Any time! If you have followed the steps listed above…you’ve let clients know they are appreciated, you’ve made dealing with you an exceptional experience, you give them an incentive to share your message with friends and you make it easy for them to do so…you can ask for referrals at any time.

Action: The key is to do something now. Draft up a letter or e-mail today and just send it off to your clients letting them know how much you value them, who much you have enjoyed working with them in the past and include something that is going to be helpful, useful for them to use, read or understand. Then over the next 4 to 6 weeks develop your ‘referral package’ and start to use it. Take yourself out of your comfort zone and take action….because if you don’t someone will and what will that mean to your business in the years to come.

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While managing your budget can be stressful, not overseeing your monthly budget can contribute to putting you further in debt if you are not aware. The benefits that come from managing your budget properly not only saves you money but help ease some of your stress over debt. Always keep in mind that a budget is primarily a plan for your monthly expenditure. Your budget, like any program, requires some level of management to achieve a successful outcome. The way I manage my budget, for instance, is by concentrating on maintaining info coordinated and controlling my expenditure.

My main focus is on coordinating the information in my budget. For example, I monitor recurring expenses like utilities, car and mortgage repayments, insurance, and the like. Consider that without monitoring my budget, I can very easily lose track of my spending. By knowing what expenditures repeat every month, I have an immediate hold on the minimum amount of money I have to put aside each month before I spend on other things I can monitor a little more such as entertainment, clothing, and holidays.

Monitoring the spending in my budget is critical because this is where the most financial progression is made. A strong measure of progress is putting money into a savings account or paying down debt. However, if I over spend, the contrary is true because instead of saving money I will use debt to help me cover the monthly expenses in my budget. Clearly, giving in to the tensions of budgeting can have expensive consequences for my finances, especially if I am not capable to pay down my debt.

There are two benefits for watching and organizing my budget: First, I save money by fending off redundant expenditure. Second, my finances are guided at achieving financial goals. Basically, by spending sagely and buying only things that are essential, I am actually freeing up money that I can either use for something else or save. The spare money can also be useful in paying off debt or saving it for a holiday. In addition to having extra money, it will also allow me to establish longer term financial goals like saving and investing for retirement or paying off my mortgage or student loans. With my budget being organised and controlled, not only does my financial situation become more secure but successfully overseeing my budget reduces the stress that often comes with being in debt.

Seldom do we get teens and young adults in their early twenties with chunks of hair missing from their heads. Plenty hair loss in men arises in their 30’s & forties although it isn’t abnormal from men in their late 20’s to drop hair as well. The thought of aging is dreaded amongst today’s society. Where aging was in the past a symbol of awareness and wisdom, it is currently frequently looked upon as if the elder you are, the more unexciting people become. All this is without doubt not TRUE in most cases. On the other hand, since this is how the media & modern society depict middle aged men & women, and losing hair is a symbol of getting elder, it is no doubt that hair loss can affect someone’s self-esteem.

TV shows generally portray middle aged men with hair loss as the folks most doubtful to succeed with scoring dates, or being happy in general. The character George Costanza of NBC’s hit TV series, Seinfeld, is the perfect example of this. Costanza was in his late thirties & endured classic male pattern hair loss. He quite regularly referred to his hair loss as one of his largest reasons for never succeeding at almost anything in life. Men & women alike both have a tendency to feel self conscious, especially when it comes to the opposing sex. In our culture, a thick, luscious, head of hair is envisaged to be pretty, and make one look more youthful & healthy.

Modern technology is most useful in restoring hair loss. Advanced hair loss treatments are available to restore one’s hair and make it look entirely natural as if you had not lost hair to begin with. It is not necessary in this day & age to have to settle with hair restoration. One’s quality of life doesn’t have to be changed with low confidence when there are so tons of advanced hair treatments to choose from. Whether a prescriptive drug, contemporary therapy, follicle transplants, or laser therapy, there are abounding options that could suit any budgets.

Hair loss treatments are nowadays incredibly popular & tried by both male and women. Folks who have lost their hair due to illness & have found it is never to grow back can occasionally be advantageous from advanced scalp therapy. Even if you are not completely losing hair, but have a receding hair line or your hair is thinning, they can benefit from an array of hair loss therapeutics. The days of depending on fake looking wigs and spray on hair are over. With so abounding choices of different hair loss treatments, people no longer have to live life feeling any less confident than they did in their early 20’s.

Sometimes I eschew drama, but life can be lonesome without a date. I finally bottomed out, this week I devoured what seemed like a pound of bacon. On a weekend that comes from being alone, duh! That actually happened. Am I crazy? Honestly, that’s the moment when I seriously thought about joining a dating service in North Dallas.

Easy solution. I’ll meet new singles thru a professional dating service, Denver Great Expectations. That isn’t a bad idea. Here’s a story. I was at my boy’s t-ball game in Dallas yesterday, Jim asked me if I have yet to win my one and only. I just can’t believe that came up. So, I said, “what’s your deal, yo?”

And of course Cousin Terry kept pressing me along the lines of marriage. I said to all of them: “Seriously, I’ll never find a gorgeous single woman hanging out with you.”

How can they be so rude? They smiled politely. Shortly after, I called Dave to put my dating woes behind me. But I couldn’t get it out of my head! I didn’t learn a thing. Chuck, who was just deployed on military commission advised that I join Great Expectations. I said, “Sure, whatever.” What a relief. I will never regret joining this dating service full of fun and desirable Dallas singles.

At the time, meeting new singles through dating services was a novel thing as I am a simple guy. I’d never done anything like this before, that my hands started sweating. My faux pas did not stop us from enjoying ourselves. The evening was a limo pub crawl from heaven. The one cool thing that really struck me were the other members, some who are my new friends.

It wasn’t long before I was regularly mingling at these amazing singles events in Dallas, I got in touch with quite a few winners that obviously share a like-minded spirit when it comes to dating. Now I can stop letting everyone give me a hard time about me being single at my age. Surprisingly enough, mingling with Great Expectations is a lot of fun and like a dream come true.

Pat

Advice Giver

What’s your greatest strength? Can you identify it?

I’m not saying your greatest strength is necessarily unique, and it probably won’t put any comic book heroes to shame. But if you can identify any strengths at all, then one of them must be your greatest (or at least a few are tied for first place). So what is it?

Not an easy question. But think of an answer anyway.

How has your greatest strength served you thus far? Do you simply take it for granted, or have you been using it deliberately and consciously? What’s the downside?

Do you find as I do that your greatest strength is also your greatest weakness? Do you find that your best human superpower is also your personal kryptonite?

For example, my greatest strength is probably my ability to learn very quickly and to retain well. I’m a fast learner. I can learn things in a few days that often take other people several months.

But this ability is also my kryptonite. Because I’m rapidly soaking up new information and ideas, my mental understanding is constantly racing far ahead of my external world. I take in knowledge far faster than I can apply it, so I’m always outpacing my surroundings. It would be exceedingly difficult for me to thrive in a corporate environment doing the same type of work year after year. If I wasn’t getting promoted every month or two and assigned bigger and bigger challenges as opposed to repetitive gruntwork, the pace of change would be too slow for me, and I’d feel bored and trapped, like a caged animal.

I had the same problem with my games business. One reason I opted to retire from game development was that it was too slow and restrictive a business model for me. I outgrew the desire to make entertainment products. But because I was so deeply entrenched in that business, I held myself to follow through on many past commitments that I would never have made again if I were starting fresh. I kept making and publishing games, and my new perspective simply oozed out around the edges. For example, I shifted the focus of the business away from arcade shoot-em-ups and towards highly cerebral, largely nonviolent logic puzzle games. I was trying to shift the business to become a better fit for me. I even toyed with the idea of using electronic entertainment as a medium for teaching personal development. But the nature of the business (and the industry as a whole) made the pace of change too slow for me to manage.

I soon realized that by clinging to the current state of my external physical world, I was only putting the brakes on myself. My reality was becoming a very inaccurate reflection of who I was on the inside. This web site is a fair reflection of who I am now, but a year ago there was very little in my external reality that accurately reflected the real me.

I realized that I needed a far more adaptive and flexible career, one that could help compensate for my kryptonite and take better advantage of my strength. This helped me commit to working directly in the field of personal development. Since the very basis of my work now is learning and growth, I have enough flexibility to keep reinventing myself without feeling trapped by an overly rigid business model. Consequently, I’ve been able to release the leash I’ve put around my growth, and in the past year I’ve probably experienced more growth than I have in the previous ten.

Do you see yourself in any of this?

Have you ever felt that your current life situation is preventing you from taking full advantage of your greatest personal strength? Is your career the best fit for your personal superpower? Or does it repeatedly expose you to kryptonite? Can you think of a different career that would allow you to work directly from your strength?

One of the advantages of working from your strength is that it produces a high ROI. You get disproportionately high results for the time and energy you invest.

Once you have a general sense of your personal strength (and if not, take your best guess anyway), brainstorm a list of 10-20 new careers that would take advantage of it. See what new possibilities you can imagine for your future.

What’s your yellow sun?

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Steve is intensely growth-oriented. He trained in martial arts, ran the L.A. Marathon, and graduated from college in three semesters with two degrees. He can juggle, count cards at blackjack, and make damn good guacamole. Steve is also a polyphasic sleeper, sleeping just 2-3 hours per day and only 20 minutes at a time. So chances are good that he’s awake right now.

How often have you heard yourself say, “I’ve got so many balls in the air I don’t know how I can possibly keep track of them all”.

We may be managing to keep the balls in motion, but how good is our juggling performance really? Are our movements controlled and rhythmic? Or are we merely gritting our teeth and hoping to catch the next ball before it falls on the ground?

Recently I was speaking with a colleague (we’ll call him Craig) who is a high achievement-oriented and well-regarded senior manager. He was overwhelmed by how much was on his plate. In addition to handling his high-pressure career, he had begun pursuing a post-graduate degree while he was already enrolled in another certificate program.

Furthermore, several projects at home also competed for his attention. In the midst of all this, Craig said that he was hoping to be able to continue to stick it out with the post-graduate degree, even though the workload was much more than he’d anticipated. To do anything other than persevere would be so out of character that it was inconceivable to him. In Craig’s words, “it would mean giving up”.

As we talked, I asked Craig whether there might be a more positive way of viewing the choices facing him. Rather than seeing the decision NOT to do something as GIVING UP…how could the decision be re-framed as CHOOSING TO FULFILL other important goals? Such a decision might mean choosing successful completion of a few key goals, rather than struggling to keep all the balls in motion.

In Craig’s situation, family commitments were at the top of his priority list. Instead of “giving up”, postponing the post-graduate degree meant that he could choose to successfully meet his family priorities, while completing his certificate program and performing effectively at work.

In trying to do it all right now, we can run the risk of not meeting our most critical goals and being out of synch with our core values.

As with many challenges in the business world, useful analogies can be drawn from nature. For example, a slowly meandering brook that enters a more narrow passage will eventually transform into a surging current. By narrowing the path, the energy of the water is channelled and results in greater momentum and power. Focus can provide the same effect for us in our work and our everyday lives.

Coach’s Question #1:
How are you diluting your focus and compromising your impact?

Somehow it can be easier for us to recognize this challenge at the organization level. When organizations stray too far from their core competencies, all too often they flounder and fail.

At the personal level this dynamic seems more difficult to acknowledge. There is something in our business culture than has difficulty with “less is more”. There seems to be an unwritten competition for the longest job description and most extensive “to do” list. We need to take a hard look at how this serves our effectiveness.

In my Coaching practice, I’ve noticed that the importance of focus is particularly critical when someone first moves into a new job or joins a new organization. It is tempting to want to immediately meet the needs of all stakeholders and attend to as much of the long-list of demands as possible. Yet, it has been observed that failure to generate a small list of early successes is a leading contributor to derailment of executives soon after they join a new organization. In fact, some enlightened companies dedicate resources to ensuring that new leaders determine these priorities quickly, establishing their list of 3 key wins as a formal action plan during an Onboarding Coaching process.

So how do you narrow down what you are going to address? Clearly determining the needs of your organization, your manager and your team is a critical step. Equally, if not more important, is doing an honest self-assessment of where it makes most sense for you, given your individual strengths, to spend your time.

Like many entrepreneurs, in running my own business I am constantly facing this Focus challenge. Being your own Finance, IT, Purchasing and Sales departments, as well as administrative assistant, can greatly dilute one’s efforts. Aligning myself with a team of individuals whom I can relay on for specific support is critical to ensuring I can keep my eye on my core business. It is very alluring to fall-back on the old adage “if I do it myself, I know it will get done”, but this of course can be a very limiting belief to growing your business.

I was recently challenged by my Coach (yes, conscientious coaches ensure that they also benefit from the power of coaching!) to look at ways I could enhance my focus by maximizing the time spent leveraging my strengths. Attending to detailed administration, for example, does not tap into my core passions to say the least. The outcome? I took the plunge and have hired a Virtual Assistant, Cindy, (her real name) who is a whiz at areas that are an inordinate burden for me. I can’t tell you how my shoulders lifted when I received my first email outlining all the tasks that Cindy would be handling for me. The momentum created by this decision is invaluable for me!

Coach’s Question #2:
How could your strengths guide your decisions as to what to focus on?

So, I leave you with an assignment…

OVER TO YOU…
What one thing could you stop doing today and in doing so, enhance your impact?

I’m interested in hearing about your reactions and learning pertaining to Focus. What have you recently stopped doing at work and how has this impacted how you are viewed by others? Send me an email with your feedback or questions to the info@development-by-design.com

Susan Edwards is President of Development by Design, a Business & Leadership Coaching and Human Resources Consulting form. Her Coaching clients are high potential leaders and profitable business owners who are redefining the terms of their success and taking their impact to a new level. She consults to Fortune 500 companies and smaller entrepreneurial organizations who are also committed to creating extraordinary impact with their customers, employees and shareholders. One of the niches of her practice is supporting new leaders and senior professionals in successfully transitioning into new organizations and “clearing the 90-day hurdle”. She is authoring a self-coaching workbook to support people in effectively navigating this transition. Visit Sue at http://www.development-by-design.com

1. An unshakable foundation:

Create and build your life from the ground up. A foundation built on solid ground will support anything and everything you take on, go through and/or desire.

2. Your personal negotiables and non-negotiables:

People who live in integrity and with self-awareness enjoy rewarding careers and relationships. Knowing and living your standards and values allows you to choose commitments based on your experience, passions and availability.

3. Knowing what your core strengths are:

Set yourself up to work and live smart…not hard. Research shows that people who discover and develop their signature strengths tend to be happier.

4. The ability to achieve desired results:

Goals should be personal, realistic, intimate, spiritual and measurable. Coaches are a navigation system for forward motion and in partnership with you; we design the HOW of achieving your results. Having a partner in this allows you to work towards accomplishment and not have accomplishment working you.

5. Supportive Environments:

Learn to set up your personal and career environments to offer support, strength and inspiration. Environments built around your values and passions bring lower levels of stress, clutter and waste, as well as increased energy, creativity and productivity.

6. Enhanced communication:

Be heard, understood and valued. Learn tools and skills that leave others with clarity and knowledge of who you are, what you bring and what you can do. Create the acknowledgment, respect and partnership to be a successful leader or co-worker and to thrive in rewarding long-term relationships.

7. Expanded awareness:

The brightest stars in career and community always surround themselves with mentors and coaches who offer constructive feedback. Two pairs of eyes and ears bring a much larger picture into focus, which eliminate the “blind spots” we all have, whether they are assets or liabilities.

8. Larger living:

Help eliminate fear, doubt, overwhelm and confusion. People reach for more when they have a supportive partner who stands by them. Live empowered with possibilities instead of waiting for the “right time and place” or “needing just a little more information.”

9. Increased earning potential:

Develop and strengthen your leadership and work ethic to create the income you are qualified for and deserve.

10: The three D’s:

Discovering the greatness that has always been yours. Being extraordinary is your birthright.

Developing full self-expression, relationships and experiences.

Delivering a legacy that leaves a reputation of quality, inspiration and excellence.

My name is Elizabeth Tull and I am an Excellence Coach who’s areas of focus are Legacy Craft and Design, Communication and Sober Living. I have been in the recovery community for 14 years and a business owner that is blessed and humbled to earn my living as a private and group coach. I have trained, developed and led many workshop support teams into creating successful lives and communities based on high personal standards, values and inspiration.

Envision yourself in the driver’s seat of your car. Where are you headed? What path are you taking? How long will it take you to get there? How do you get around traffic and road blocks? These are some questions that can be applied to life as well. How does one find the answer to these questions? By learning about, understanding, and applying the various powerful laws of the universe. These are the laws which govern our very existence.

There are several laws that can help one get on track, two of them, which work in tandem are the law of relativity and the law of proper perspective. The law of relativity tells us several things: first, that all things are connected and nothing is bad per se, just an experience with a lesson, which has a benefit. But it is up to each of us to find that good. This is called the “tests of initiation” and the way to pass is to be true to yourself, and pay attention to your inner dialogue while you are looking for the answer. Next, the law of relativity states that we must look at our problems and compare them to the problems of others. One will not have to look long or hard to find someone in worse shape. This really helps put things in perspective, for as bad as one may think it is, it could always be worse which brings us back to the positive state of appreciation, simply by looking outward and broadening your scope of vision. The law of relativity can be accelerated by using the law of proper perspective, which states that one must determine what is most important and what will produce spiritual growth and put those discoveries into play in order to reach the goal.

When Lorna had had enough of banging her head against the wall she decided that there had to be another way. She wanted several things in life, but her ultimate goal was to achieve success in her field, leave her corporate career, and start her own consultancy business. But at each turn, Lorna kept reaching road blocks. She was passed over for additional company paid educational opportunities, was not allowed to attend meetings with larger clients, and could not get the ball rolling on the preliminary phase of business start-up. All of these things were necessary if Lorna wanted to achieve her goals. Lorna was always busy, but as far as her accomplishments went – she may as well have been standing still! Lorna needed a course of action. She needed to put the law of proper perspective to work immediately.

She spent a long weekend looking at her goals, tracking her actions up until this point, and realized that she had several goals, but no plan for how to reach them. She had been winging it. In essence, she had just handed the keys to her car over without batting an eye. That weekend Lorna learned that she really wanted to get back in the driver’s seat, and started developing a plan for how to get there. Her plan had two phases – one for her current career and the other for getting her business off the ground. Lorna’s action plan included taking classes, finding a mentor, and developing a business plan. Not only did her outline help her put things in proper perspective, but it helped her create “ownership” for her life. She learned she was truly driving herself to her destination, and she was enjoying the journey.

The law of relativity and the law of proper perspective are crucial to both large and small accomplishments. It’s so much easier to reach a destination with clear vision and a road map. This is what these laws accomplish. They help level the playing field by getting one to delve in deep to learn about what is really wanted. Then by removing the limiting beliefs, and assisting one in developing a way to use all available resources in manners most effective and conducive to success. The process is broken down into manageable steps, but each step brings the seeker closer to the goal. No matter the size of the goal, or the scope of the goal, this process will help one arrive.

Start today! Determine where you want to be. Begin by writing down your daily goals, prioritize them into a logical sequence (logical for you, since each person is unique), and start checking them off as you accomplish them. Keeping track of our goals will help establish ownership. It will visibly show you where you may be straying from your goals, and will help you build up your self confidence and self-esteem along the way. Both are useful, and will spur you on to meet your goals with that much more determination. To paraphrase the saying, ‘each journey begins but with one small step’ – so put the pedal to the metal!

Eva Gregory, master coach, speaker and author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity, http://www.feelgoodguide.com, has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction in person, on the radio and in dozens of teleconference training seminars and programs. She is the author of several books and e-books and has co-developed several telephone-based and internet-based training courses on the Laws of Attraction. Her most popular program to date is her Leading Edge Living One Year Success Program. (http://www.leadingedgecoaching.com/Living/index.shtml) Eva is regularly featured on radio and in the media and is a recognized authority on the Laws of Attraction. To learn more about her products and services, visit Leading Edge Coaching, http://www.leadingedgecoching.com NOTE: You’re welcome to “reprint” this article online as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the “about the author” info at the end), and you send a copy of your reprint to eva@coacheva.com

If you are a long-time smoker and wish to stop smoking, the following guidelines may be of use in quitting the habit. Smoking has long-term health hazards, as reported in news clips and reports. The habit however is a personal decision, and it all depends on how determined a person is, and what level of abstinence can be practiced in order to stop smoking.

People take to smoking for various reasons. It could be the sheer charm of smoking, joining a group, beating stress, soothing and calming nerves, and so on. The reasons for quitting are commonly health related.

There does not seem to be a trick in quitting a habit. It is easy to fall back and start all over again. Perhaps a slow and steady approach can do the trick when more severe methods have failed.

Here are a few words to guide and reaffirm your determination to quit smoking if you wish to do so:
1. If you keep failing, have faith in yourself. You can do it, if others have done it before.
2. It is important to remind yourself of the reasons you want to quit smoking. Write them down and read them regularly.
3. Seek help from others around, the ones you trust, in talking to you about quitting. When others persuade us, it may work better for some.
4. There are medical substitutes available that help people climb down on the amounts.
5. Setting a deadline by the end of which one must quit can help in some cases.
6. Find out which plan works best for you – an immediate stop, a gradual pulling out, or some combination.
7. Knowing and talking to people who have quit smoking can boost your morale.
8. Smoking could be related to poor health and regimen. Change your regimen and see if it can substitute for the need to smoke.
9. Visualize the lifestyle of a non-smoker, and find out why it is positive and good. This will increase the attraction toward the goal.

For more information on quitting smoking, visit: stop smoking

The author is a freelance writer and associated with www.stop-smoking-guide.info